power cord
by bam
week after week, i weigh the passing thought that i ought to set my alarm, oh, a good hour earlier than all the rest of the days so that i could slip out from under the sheets (for it is sheet, not cover weather these past few balmy days) and cloak myself in the velvet hours of night giving way to dawn.
so i could slither into my garden, curl up on the creaky bench, not unlike an inchworm in repose, and spy on all the doings of the morn.
i could, perhaps, watch the shrunken globes of dew catch firstlight, cast a hundred itty-bitty rainbows, a daily morning magic show for those who, like the robin and the cardinal, do not waste the dawn in slumber.
i could, if i was lucky, catch the fronds of fern unfurling, as the fiddleheads let loose their clenched-fist grip, give way to warming rays, awaken to the sun.
i might catch the first flash of golden yellow feathers, papa goldfinch, pecking at the thistle seed.
i might even be there to greet the hungry cat as he moseys back from all his midnight mischief, staggering ’round the garden bend, stopping for a slurpy drink from the mossy bowl where robins splash and preen.
the morning hours on a friday are the ones i call religion. oh, yes, i need to pack the lunches, chase the children out the door. there are chores aplenty all day long. but it’s the one day i set aside for meditation, planned meditation.
i might catch a snatch here or there, gazing out the windows of the el train as it rolls past a cemetery. or peering down an alley, watching a teetering old man picking through the garbage. i find time to stitch deep thoughts all throughout my week. but i don’t have unbroken time too often.
and that’s why i call friday mornings my very own three-pronged power cord.
i plug my soul back into the great generator in the sky. that sounds too flip, and i don’t mean it to be. it’s just that i hear the whispers of the divine when i am crouched down low to the earth in all her glory.
when i am wrapped in birdsong. when the saintly soprano of the wren sends shivers down my spine. when i am close enough to holiness itself to hear the rush of the blue jay’s wing as she flutters by.
when i am filling my lungs with the incense that wafts right now from my korean spice viburnum, a sacrament on branches if ever there was one.
some weeks by wednesday i am limping, grabbing hold of counters, trying to find my middle so i’ve half a chance of staying steady till the workday rushing ends, and before the mad-dash of the weekend reaches out to grab me by the throat.
through serendipity and schedules, friday is my sunday. the unfolding of my sabbath, the day when i drink in my strongest dose of why we’re plopped here in the first place.
for all the hurricanes and sirens that seem to whirl around me saturday through thursday, i am at heart a soul who needs a prayer shawl of quietude, to put my ear to the metronome of heaven here on earth.
i don’t want the breathing of the garden to be drowned out by what’s coursing through some squawky earphones. i don’t want to miss one inch of the slender stalks as they shimmy toward the clouds.
i want to be front-row witness to papa cardinal slipping sunflower seeds into mama cardinal’s beak, the closest thing to kissing, surely, in the feathered world of birds. i want to be the one who’s tiptoeing through the garden when the summer’s first monarch alights, the telltale stained-glass wings brushing by my nose.
and so if i don’t get my celestial dose before the house awakens, erupts in rushing-searching-slurping-dashing, i sit in solitude and bliss once the last dish is rinsed and put away, once the grocery list is scribbled, once the last bed is made, the pillow fluffed, the cat pulled out from hiding under someone’s covers.
it’s some cathedral the place in which i cast my prayers. a redbud branch is my domed ceiling. the lilies of the valley fill the choir loft. the wren’s song is my epistle. and it’s the breeze rushing off the lake that this morning carried me to where i meet the heart, the hand of God.
what on earth serves as your power cord? what recharges you? fills you with saintly essence? where did you meet God this week?
You notice so many things (and in beautiful detail) about the Friday mornings on which you meditate. I’m quite curious; have you seen just as many aspects about a detail from the mornings as you have aspects of various mornings as a whole?As for what recharges me, there are two things that recharge different parts of me: I find that dancing with a connection to the rhythm and beat of the music offers much in the way of stability. The harmony of sounds (and lyrics if there are any) pull out emotions that were reduced to being a mere occurrence and give those emotions meaning beyond anything I could find through reflection alone. It’s as though I could experience the emotion again through the moment created by the song, temporary as that moment may be. By dancing, I entwine myself with that moment and relive the emotion in equal or perhaps even greater strength compared to a time when I felt the emotion without the music. Stability in my world of transience.I am invigorated to see what the world has to offer by hearing the experiences and perspectives of others as well (which is why I’m here ^_^). I came to the idea sometime ago that a person could visit any and every place in the world but still not see more than what could be seen in their own backyard or town; that someone living in the same as me place could still share something completely new because each of us focus on and notice different aspects of the world we live in due to life experiences. From then on, I decided that to explore the world not mainly through trips to various places, but through listening to the experiences, stories, and passions of people I meet (through some medium or another). To me, listening to others expands not only my awareness but also the openness of my own perspective.
dear marci, funny you should mention dance, as i was feeling the same way about music, how it unlooses me from this world and sets me floating. i think of the cords that tie a hot air balloon to the ground, and then the sand bags are cut (or however that works) and lift off….yes, actually i think i notice the miracles even when i’m running on the other mornings. the other ones might have a more harried rhythm, but there is always something that stumbles across my path to capture my attention and with it, my imagination. sometimes it’s urban. sometimes it’s the natural amid the nitty gritty, and sometimes it’s the holy natural discovered along the way. it’s just that fridays come with the gift of taking it at my own slow rhythm….and i love your thoughts about seeing the world through other people’s stories. do you mind if i ask how you found the chair? it is always such a serendipitous wonder when someone scoots up to the table, and i don’t have a clue (besides magic) what drew them here,,,,,a marvel, indeed….
I agree with you that taking in what you notice at your own pace is a gift…more time to appreciate what is there and even make connections. I find that immersion can be very lasting and fulfilling; it also has the capacity to make a memory much more vivid and meaningful.As for what brought me here, no worries on my end from you asking, bam. I am open to sharing with you the series of events that have led me here. Where to begin…ah, how difficult it is when the answer itself is another chain of stories. I had visited a walking tour class your husband helped teach and thought him to be a decent person when he did not laugh while I asked one of the tour guides questions about a house. The thought that he would probably keep good company popped up in my mind, which led me to the link to the chair from Facebook.
oh my GOSH!!! that is REALLY funny. i wouldn’t in a million years have guessed that a follower of bdk would somehow find me. but i am so glad you did. he is a great good soul. solid as a rock. which makes it all the better than i waft around like a breezy day…..
Life definitely has its share of unexpected surprises! \(^_^)/ I’m glad to have met the both of you.Your mention of “a breezy day” also reminds me about my description of what I considered to be the essence of living:”It’s like a breeze, carrying any and every sensory trigger, permeating through me as if I were also a part of the stream of life and not just standing in the way.”It really is amazing to feel alive rather than to only get by through life.
my goodness, such profundity….(is that the right word?)Just stopping by for my usual shot of hope, grace and wisdom… Whatfabulous tea parties you hold at your table, Bam….and your guests are abalm for the soul…..how blessed we are; each and all of us to have sointuitive and gifted a hostess and friend….Deo gratias ~