tucking in promise
by bam
it’s borrowed time, i sense. the bitter chilly autumn is borrowing from end-of-summer. the air, uplifted by warm currents passing by. not yet finger-numbing cold. though it should be.
and so, i got reprieve. free pass to tuck in bulbs just two weeks before thanksgiving.
any day now, snows could hurl. winds, whistle. i’ve no business waiting till this morning to amble out to where my shovel lies, settling into winter’s slumber, the nap that’s undisturbed till the earth begins to stir.
but i pulled that sharp-edged blade from the hook where it hangs, i put it back in service, just one more time so i could tuck in promise for the months beyond the darkness.
it’s bulb day at my house, and not a minute too soon.
as is always, always the case when it comes to garden tasks, they serve my soul as much as they serve my soils.
there is resurrection at the heart of slicing into earth, wrenching back the sable-colored loam, wincing at the bits that i’ve disturbed, impaled, with my digging.
there is faith galore in tucking in a bulb, concentrated life. in setting it just so, so the roots are poking down and the shoot is facing skyward, where the vernal sun will come, will tickle it awake, will coax it from the frozen earth, will break through, will startle me with tender slips of green.
and as i made my way through sack after sack of bulbs–daffodil and scilla, snowdrops and itty-bitty hyacinth–i couldn’t help but think of march and april hence, when our world here will be clearer, when the equation will be known. when i will be able to whisper the name of the college where my firstborn’s headed. when i will know what’s around the bend.
we are living this year in the ebb and flow of time, in looking back and peeking forward. in recounting and projecting. in swirling, swirling all around.
and this year the bulbs i plant, they are the bulbs of the tomorrow that we’ve aimed for for a very long time.
i will watch those blooms unfold, i will pluck them, pull them in the house, as i gather up bouquets for his graduation day, as i soothe my wincing heart, as i watch my boy unfold toward college.
and next year’s bulbs, they will be the bulbs i plant while awaiting word from far away–the first semester under foot. how go the classes? how goes the rowing on a river i don’t know? how goes your heart so far away from mine?
each year, those of us who tend our gardens as if our souls, we wait till cool winds come, and the sun slips lower in the sky, and then we head out with bulb and shovel, to tuck in promise for the warmth to come.
bless the bulbs. and bless the blooming on the morrow.
now sleep, for winter’s just around the corner.
there is more to be done, as i dress the beds for winter, race to beat the bitter cold: chunky cotton-burr mulch to work in, to feed and aerate all at once. top coat of chopped-up leaves, mounded round the trunks and roots, nature’s scarf to stop the winds. then i’ll slip in the house, crank the kettle, start my winter’s vigil, the season of introspection that is at the heart of me and my garden.
question: how do you plant yourself a bumper crop of hope? or at least a slip of it? believing that light will follow darkness?
Oh BAM, it’s been both familiar and revealing to read about the slow but persistent march towards college … I’ve never had children, so I can’t imagine what it must be like. On the other hand, I have parents. Loving, supportive parents who have always been willing to help me out or just stand back according to what I needed. It’s a huge transition for everyone in the family when the oldest leaves.But now I am wondering what I will be doing in 9 months, where I will go next after graduation. Come May 7th I will strike out into the world with a BA in English and not much else but the experience that degree represents. Looking back, I wouldn’t change a single moment. College is hard. I’ve been through a lot of long nights and tough classes, suffered a lot of anxiety, made a few mistakes. But when I look back on the freshman I once was, the confidence and perspective I’ve gained seem worth it. My college advice? Never be afraid to ask for help, from a friend, counselor, or professor. (Also, go abroad!)Just wanted to add the voice of a current, soon-to-graduate college student as a promise that everything will turn out better than fine. It did for me.
Ivy, you are one of the most beautiful “bulbs” to be planted this fall…can’t wait to see the flowering. Love to see you at the table and (selfishly) if you blossom in Chicago, well that would be a wonderful moment too.
be still my heart, the ivy might sprout in chicagio?!?!?! seems like YESTERDAY ivy and her beloved auntie were in the summer house with me, nibbling beautifully spread sandwiches of tomato and could there have been/should have been goat cheese. oh sweet ivy where could the years have gone? your wisdom on college is rich. so exhausted at the moment i can’t bear the thought of more long nights. they’ve been mighty long and mighty unending of late.but my spring bulb pushed the for-now final, and binding, button last night. so there is much relief this morning that that is now settled. we are breathing again in our house. though i feel i need five weeks to catch up with all the spent energy that sputtered from my jagged nerves……the waiting and watching and keeping the hand at the small of the back is a parent’s deepest job. and one that reaches to the core……
Yes, sending a child off into the world seems like the most natural and terrible thing. Both at the same time. Now it is time to make another transition with my middle child. I can see the day not too far off when I will have no children at home. But the joy of discovering who they will become overshadows the pain of letting them go.My little bulb planted in hopes of spring is all my pregnant goats. We are at the end of a long busy season on the farm. I am so ready for the quiet of winter. But, I have this giddy feeling when I think of kidding season. All the baby goats and the bright spring milk! We will be making aged cheeses in our new cheese cave too. I am so tired now it is hard to imagine how I will get through all that work. But, call me crazy, I look forward to kidding season every year!
dear ivy’s mom, what a thrill to meet you here. i do need to get down to meet you and the kids. i was at a goat farm up this way back in the spring, and i was right there as a few mamas birthed their babies, oh what a sight!you sure planted a gorgeous bulb in ivy. oh my….i am just thrilled that you pulled up a chair. thank you…..