um, summer starts…here?
by bam
the calendar months and months ago had been marked, “school’s out.” the plan, picnic at the beach, carved into our little heads.
workdays had been shuffled around, errands scratched.
it was the last day of school, dang it, a day that still stirs that once-in-a-lifetime gallump in your belly, that still can make even a mama feel lighter than air itself.
for weeks now, it’s been nothing but worries, making sure the 2d grader got the research project signed, sealed, delivered. getting the high schooler through exams, without crumbling into little bits of nerve-jangled angst.
last day of school is hardly just a picnic for the children. why, it’s hallelujah time for grownups too.
and so we weren’t about to let a little winter weather get in the way of our summer’s start.
never mind that winds were howling. and goosebumps, the skin covering of the day.
we would not be deterred.
fools we were, marching into the joint where hotdogs and gyros come drippingly (though not in trans-fats, the posters promise). we ordered up. grabbed our grease-dappled bag and set out to where the summer would begin: the beach.
the 50-degree, rain-splattered, wind-tousled beach.
hmm, seemed no need for that ol’ tattered quilt in the back of the wagon. it would not be spread across these soggy sands. maybe just around our shaky shoulders, there inside the comfort of our upholstered picnic grounds.
seemed our picnic–and thus our summer–would commence right there on seats A and B of the wagon. the dashboard, we found, made for a fine picnic table. as did the booster seat in back.
we sat, counted raindrops, nibbled on our non-trans-fats.
we were, except for the fellow steaming up the windows in the car next door, the only fools testing out the beach, taunting summer to begin, darn it. get started already.
sometimes you make do. you stick your fingers in the mound of greasy fries. you consider the fact that only summer lies ahead.
you make wishes on the raindrops, savor the immense weightlessness of that one glorious day that comes but a few times in any life: the day that all the worries of the world are lifted, and you are free, free of sitting in your desk, free of hauling lunch in lunch bags, free of filling in the nightly homework log.
those days aren’t mine any longer. long ago i lost the blessed, lung-filling magnificence of no-more-worries. that’s a gift for kids alone.
but once a year, when you’re a mama, you get to slip and slide into the dream, to pretend, until you reach the bottom of the bag of fries, that you too are let loose from all that ties you.
and, so, even when the rains splatters on your windshield, you steer toward the beach. you pour out your picnic fare. and you lick from your fingertips all that summer promises.
and you pay no mind to goosebumps.
people, what’s your wish list for summer? besides a little heat, please….
I think today I got the very first glimmer that summer might actually happen…..never has green been so green! I am keeping my fingers crossed….double.
Just me again……I am packing for an Ohio road trip and dithering over what to bring, given the vagaries of the weather and all. I was thinking about the “meander” and it struck me that it really isn’t Summer just yet. Darn if dear old Spring isn’t just reminding us that she is still in charge for about 6 more days or so. Anyone who lives in Chicago knows that Spring is just a big “tease” and we have will just have to watch her do her dance for a bit longer. Anyway….weather is the ultimate reminder to us puny humans that we don’t control anything, any way! We will just wait it out…..blessing on us all!
yes, beautiful, spring still is reigning over her flirty, taunty season here. i should know that summer’s but a vision down the road. for my firstborn came to me on the first full day of summer, so it’s a day that always comes to me full-throttle. soon i will shift seasonal gears and begin the contemplation of his cake; i will relive the hours before his birth; i will remember and remember, take stock, and count my baskets full of blessings……yes, it’s true it really is still spring. and aren’t we lucky she hasn’t decided to dump us with a thick blanket of whitestuff, and i don’t mean the petals tumbling from the trees, the limbs now giving up their blossoms and slipping into something green. the gift of shade for the heat that’s coming….isn’t it magnificent how it all works so finely?happy travels, lamcal…be safe above all.
Up here in Northern Arizona, the seasons are not delineated like in most of the country…so I long for the season changes I used to know. Summer comes nonetheless, and with it the completion of a big project of ours that will bring many blessings….The monsoon clouds towering above are a highlight of every summer, and the smell of the high desert air just after the rain is heavenly.
I was thinking about the geographic differences around the table and wondering about the experiences of the non-midwestern folk…although presently I am in Columbus OH and it is very different from the Great Lakes region. Arizona…England….South Africa…New England…southern Illinois and North Carolina are all different, yet we are sitting in our own defintion of summer. May we alll find pleasure in it. It was a nice moment to think of Arizona.
Just returned from a week of summer in Ireland.Traveled there for my family reunion of every 5 years in County Corkwhere the majority of the family lives (Fermoy, Castlelyons, Midletonand West Cork – Skibberean, Ballydehob).The sun was glorious with warm temperatures to match. This is theheight of much savored but short Irish summer weather.So much so that when I stopped in a snail sized shop in the village ofCourtmacsherry to pick up a newspaper to read, the owner said, “don’tbe buying a newspaper today – tis much too beautiful of a day. Just goout and enjoy and leave the paper here.”The Irish Times and summer not to be mixed. I left the paper there andstarted walking.