Big Gulps
by bam

I shan’t often begin with an image de moi but this is not usual time. This is unusual. As in extraordinary. As in pinch-me, this-could-be-heaven time.
Bliss would be a word for it. Bliss defined as when all variables in an equation perfectly align: three boys + one mama + Dublin, capital of the Land of 40 Shades of Green = Bliss. Then square it. And square it again. Getting close.
It’s only been a wee few days but oh what we’ve all squeezed in. Joyce (of course; we’re here for Bloomsday it turns out, and the city is teeming with folks dressed as if they’ve just stepped out of Ulysses, June 16, 1904) and O. Wilde, whom I bumped into on a city bench.

Add to that pair, a stunning afternoon absorbing epigraphs at the Museum of Literature Ireland, miles and miles of strolls through greenswards like this:

And hilarities that come every other syllable in a land that flows with wit and gab.
It’s the gift of living in the crucible of time. You’re compelled by holy ordinance and keen attentiveness to squeeze each succulence from every blessed morsel.
And so I gulp and gulp. I whisper undying thanks and memorize the moment, pressing all this wonder, all this love, into the cockles of my heart.
Before I dive into another Dublin day, a short picture reel:




And I don’t even mention Evensong in St. Patrick Cathedral, nor the intoxicating tour of the Guinness Storehouse, nor fish and chips in Dublin’s most ancient pub (1198), nor the coterie of cabdrivers we now count among our friends.
But when I gulp the most—voraciously and with all my soul—is nothing more astounding than sitting round a table, or strolling hand in hand along a winding path with the boys who grew my heart as big as big could be.
May your day too be blessed in big big gulps or the sweetest sips to ever wet your lips.
Love from Dublin 2.
Your Babs.

You are in your element, bam. May the road rise to meet you at every emerald step.
it is rising. It is rising.
It must be big, because you’re even using capital letters!!! The photo of you and Oscar is a favorite. (And the reflection of T in the window glass as he takes the photo.😍) Gulped in every word and love every word. Keep gulping! xoxoxoxoloveyou
dear darling, it’s like wearing high heels when you’re used to flip flops, but I’m a terrible typer on this little phone anyway and to get rid of the caps is a pain in the arse as they’d say, so I let em rip!!
Blessing. Pure blessing. Gulp away!
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Love this!
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thank you!
Love this and enjoyed seeing your pictures!
thank you! ❤️❤️
My husband is a native Dubliner (now US citizen, in his 60s, after we married). I’ve driven all over, many times (we go back frequently), we have fave hotels, even. Holler at me for tips if you ever decide to go back. I know all the less touristy places. 🙂
oooohhhh! I’m coming back, to be sure. I asked a new friend today if there were many writing residencies and he said you can’t take two steps without running into a writer! So he promises me there are ways aplenty to post myself here for a bit…
Oh, you hit my heart this morning, Barb. We lived in rural Ireland for 12 years and my ancestral home became real home. When we left we left behind my own beloved boy as a student at Trinity.
oh my gracious!! It was Trinity’s graduation today and we were there walking through campus. Animated with joy.
Your words are full of the joy and happiness you are enjoying! I can feel your bliss, and that’s not any blarney. 🙂 Keep gulping!
PS! Love your pictures!
bless you dear Jack!
Writers and greenswards and wit, oh my.
With your three beloved men, oh my.
Thank you for sharing Ireland and your pleasure. ‘Tis opulence for the soul.
ahhh, you reply in song. And I hear you. My heart skips along. ❤️❤️
I am elated for you, my beloved B! May your dearest dreams continue to come true… xoxo
now down in Cork awaking to the haunting, heartwarming sound of the wood pigeon. After a feast to remember at Ballymaloe, a country house with perhaps the finest cooking in Ireland. Up to Miltown Malbay today, where we’re staying on a dairy farm. Tomorrow I wake up to cows.
I look forward to a longer version, stories and cows and meals, and Cork. Etc.