settling in and summer serendipities
by bam
clippers, shovel, trowel. those are the implements of my tranquility. of returning to my roost and sinking in my roots.
i’m back from travels far and farther. old home seeps into all the crags and crevices. knows me as intimately as any living soul. the familiarity of this old house’s creaks and cracks, the way the one floorboard at the top of the stairs whines its arthritic whine (you too might whine if, for a good 85 years, you’d been underfoot to the clumsiness and weighty soles of so many), the way the light falls in at the same afternoon hour day after day and casts a halo on the old clock that never chimes the proper hour, it all is home to me. and it all comes rushing in, as if a tide pool filling once again, oozing into hollow parts now on their way toward sated.
i loved the adventure of my travels. loved being nursemaid to my boy. but coming home is, in deep down ways, where i belong. it’s in this old house that i finally found my peace. and, every time, it soothes me, quietly awaits me.
the garden, most of all, is living breathing companion. more than just a place to dig and poke, it almost speaks to me in whispers. delights me. returns the favour of my attention with its unfurled petals, its landing spot for bumblebee and butterfly and red-breasted robin. as one schooled in the storybook pages of tasha tudor, kate greenaway, and the norton anthology of children’s poetry, i honed early on my imagination’s muscles (thank you, mama). i spy a delphinium in bloom, a bloom as cobalt blue as neptune is thought to be, and i am certain an elfin soul will soon be stretching out a hammock from stem to stem down there where ladybugs and caterpillars roam. and so the garden to me is endless canvas of delight, whimsy, and unfolding tale, as if i’m something of the puppeteer to my plantings.
i relish sinking back into the rhythms of my chores: the way i stack the mugs, the wee bouquets i tuck around the house, the shopping list i know by heart.
all of it serves to cradle me. tells me i’m home where i belong.
the world and its adventures will be mine again, should i choose to wander. but for now, the summer––and the cicada––are upon us, and the tempo’s slowed, and my tank feels very much in need of filling.
i intend to surrender to summer, and let the whimsies steer me. i might not write each friday. i might write wednesdays instead. i might go a spell in silence. i might write in the middle of some night.
the point is, summer plays best in serendipitous tones. and i intend to listen. and to play along.
what will you do new this summer?




Welcome home! Just wondering…what impact has the new(er) neighbor’s fence had on your garden? How have you had to make changes to adapt? (So like life, yes?)
ahhh, so sweet: it’s made my garden an imaginary cloister garden, walled and shaded, a contemplative space where quiet and wisping stems prevail. i’ve been out there all morning, as my beloved BFF arrives for a summer’s week-long visit, and i am making it midwest perfect for my california girl. i was just futzing with my gurgling fountain and, um, let’s just say it was a bit electrifying. off to buy a new pump at the garden store. if i could sleep in my garden and never come inside i’d be purring like a big gray cat. xox
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You have the home of my dreams, Barbie! Inside and out, it’s just…enchanting. I can picture you with your old shorts, trowel and clippers in hand, and I can live vicariously through you, toiling away out front or in back. You are a master story teller. What I’ll be doing new this summer is experiencing it in Florida. The heat and the bugs I’ve heard about, but from my balcony I’m witnessing family after family visiting our beach and everyone is doing something fun in or near the ocean-surfing, boogie boarding, long boarding, sand castle building, digging for buried treasures, watching a rocket launch or trying to pet the dolphins as they swim by. It’s my newest form of entertainment and I love it!
i am currently in shorts that SHOULD be humiliating and likely should be in the garbage heap, but they are so old and held together with so many safety pins and threads that they fit just fine. i’m wearing them to the garden store in two minutes, which is my retort to north shore ways. i seem to be embracing turning into the neighborhood garden kook.
Summer is a happy time for us to walk with GOD. It is the warmer time that extends the day and gives us the hugs whether close at hand or faraway!
❤ !
This is such a timely post – as I’m reading this, the hub and I are on the last leg of a ten day road trip from the high desert of Arizona to the lush scenery of Oregon and the Oregon/Pacific coast. Such wonders – a few literally took my breath away and I found myself a bit emotional.
We are “nesty girls”, dearest bam. The photo of your garden and that lovely little summer cottage are so dreamy – who wouldn’t want to stroll there! Home is not only where the heart is, it’s where our souls soak up the solitude of being in our happy place. There truly is no place like home. xox
amen, sweetheart. welcome home. xoxox
I’m so glad you’re home at long last in your own lovely nest. May your summer hours be delicious. Wishing you a lovely week with your BFF! xo
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It is so calming to be transported into your lush garden or your breezy screen porch. Your gardening togs sound as tattered as mine (which include a t-shirt advertising the 1991 Great Lakes Beach Sweep), but you’re far braver than I to venture off your property in them.
I respect your desire for a freeform summer, so I’ll enjoy your missives when you send them. In the meantime, I’m practicing watercolor painting following a beginners class at Lill Street Art Center. The garden is a plentiful source of still life material. (My leaves come out terrible!)
I loooove that you’re watercoloring! There is something sooo languorous about daubing watery color, watching it pool, and ooze, and sometimes dribble….it sounds like the perfect summer feat! If you’re ever inclined to set up an easel in my garden, the garden gate is always open….you would be the perfect punctuation for a summer’s afternoon.
OH! Thank you! I would love to!